Anyone who knows me knows I am a Facebook addict. I first used it 14 years ago to stay in touch with friends and update them on my wife’s heart transplant recovery. During the pandemic, I used it even more, sharing positive posts—pretty photos, jokes, uplifting quotes, and thought-provoking stories and articles—to encourage others during that dark, scary time. Unfortunately, I am often tempted to respond to misleading memes and comments on Facebook, wishing people would think before posting, especially when they repeat what they hear from others, some of which may be inaccurate.
I admit there are times when I truly dislike Facebook, especially when divisive figures die, and posts turn toxic. I get tired of hearing people say, “Good, I’m glad that he’s dead, and I hope he burns in hell.” I remember a TV news story about a mass murderer scheduled for execution. When it was announced that he had been executed, a group of people waiting outside the jail cheered. It just feels wrong to me to celebrate someone’s death, even if they are a hated criminal. Even if I believe justice has been served, I won’t rejoice in someone’s death. If someone dies without God, their fate is tragic, and I refuse to celebrate it.
When faced with controversial deaths, stepping back from social media is ideal, but hard when you carry a cellphone or use a computer for work. While I understand some are venting, much of what’s shared can be hateful or mean-spirited. As Christians, we should reflect on what Jesus would do and instead show compassion, empathy, and love. If someone I dislike dies or is killed, I am not going to post, “Good, I am glad he is dead.” That is not the Christian way. It’s important to remember that even those we dislike have grieving friends and families, who might see or hear about those negative posts. We can express support, refrain from posting negativity, or simply not post at all.
Most importantly, we should be praying for them! There’s enough negativity out there already; let’s focus on positivity instead. Colossians 4:6 reminds us to “Let our conversations be gracious and uplifting, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” Staying positive in today’s world is nearly impossible, but we must strive to do so. So let’s try to be gracious out there!
Take care and be kind!
Bill R
